Tuesday, November 17, 2009

Every One's A Winner



I don't think I've heard this song in years. Had one of those Happy Moments with it today when it started playing on my radio when I was on my way home. Didn't have to get out of the car until it was all over. Some songs are for listening to and marveling at how great the musicianship is, others are for bootay shakin'. This is a bootay shakin' tune.

Saturday, November 14, 2009

Green River



I just realized that I have NO CCR or John Fogerty in my CD library. I think I'll buy myself an early Christmas present. LOL

Wednesday, November 11, 2009

Sunday, November 8, 2009

Sweet Rock Lazy Sunday Candy

I don't know why guys want to join the Hair Club. Bald is sexy, especially when playing a mean axe.

Saturday, November 7, 2009

Taking It Easy

A little older, maybe a little wiser. Definitely a little slower. Taking it a little easier than I used to, but I'm still up for a Slow Ride.

Friday, November 6, 2009

Chasing The Blues Away

Sometimes Youtube yields a gem among gems. Such is the case with this video that I stumbled over while looking for a decent version of Wilson Pickett's "Midnight Hour". BB King, SRV, Etta James, Billy Ocean, and Gladys Knight all together on stage although not all were singing. Some day someone will upload a really good version of "Midnight Hour" but until then...

Thursday, November 5, 2009

Soul Man



"Today's music ain't got the same soul" Bob Segar

And nobody could say that any better than Bob did.

Wednesday, November 4, 2009

Ballas Hough Band

Two of my favorite professional dancers on Dancing With The Stars are Mark Ballas and Derek Hough. They're friends with an interest in music and dancing, of course. There had been a mention last year that they had a band together called Ballas Hough, but I heard nothing of their music until last night. They performed on the show last night and I liked what I heard.

Today I went snooping around in Youtube and found a video of the song they performed last night and somehow without the dancing they did during their performance, it didn't appeal to me as much. I snooped around some more and found some videos of them doing other performances.

The jury is still out on them as far as I'm concerned. Most of the videos I found were embedding disabled or sounded great as long as people were talking but had serious audio issues when the guys began to perform. Never let it be said that I am hidebound and inflexible when it comes to new music, I stuck with the video hunt until I found this performance of them in March on the Bonnie Hunt Show.

I don't know if they're working towards making a profession out of music other than as dancers, but I'm willing to give them a chance to show me what they've got. How about you?

Sunday, November 1, 2009

Not The Best Party I've Ever Attended

I don't know where to begin with this post. The Halloween Party turned out to be Youngest's Wife's attempt to restore a relationship between Hubby and Myself with 2 members of the family that we've fallen out with. It's not the kind of falling out that creates unpleasantness at social gatherings because we just don't go when we know they're going and we don't get invited to their parties. This has resulted in missed graduation parties, birthday celebrations, christenings, etc.

Hubby was the victim in all of this, he chose to ignore the situation and the perpetrators rather than to further divide the family. His Mom is dead, and although he lost out on EVERYTHING that she had willed to him, he decided to honor her memory and not create problems. I've kept my mouth shut for 5 years because I honor my husband's choices.

Hubby's oldest sister, without legal power of attorney, sold antiques that included Hubby's roll top oak desk to herself and her favorite brother. Since she didn't have power of attorney, his Mom's name appears on every single bill of sale and we know it's a forgery. Her will was missing, the deed to the house was missing, the CD's that were held jointly in his Mom's name and the names of every one of her children were cashed in.

The house, the house she lived in all her life which was way too big was sold to Aunt Ninny's favorite brother for $17,000 dollars. The sale took place while his Mom was in a nursing home and in a semi-comatose state caused by Alzheimers Disease. She wasn't capable of feeding herself, let alone hold a pen. Sale was witnessed by...Aunt Ninny and Hubby's Youngest Sister. The will divided everything equally and neither Hubby, nor his Oldest Brother received their share of that $17,000. They didn't have to give Hubby anything, there was no will to present. As a matter of fact, everything that had her signature on it was gone. No way to prove forgery without a signature is there?

The only thing Hubby cared about was his desk. It was a gift to him from his Dad who died in 1968. He asked Ninny for the desk back and she refused to let him have it claiming that he didn't take it when he married me so it was hers now. She took care of their Mom, she earned it. He hasn't spoken to either her or his Youngest Sister since.

The problem with the brother that bought the house illegally was resolved when he came to us and explained why he did it. I'd like to buy a $100,000 house for
$17,000. He lives directly next to it and couldn't stand the thought of strangers living in the house. He rents it out to the friend of the family that took care of their Mom until it became necessary for her to reside in a nursing home. There has been no attempt to resolve the issues between Hubby and his sisters. Not even at last night's party. The tension was so thick last night that you could have cut it with a knife. Thankfully the sisters left early so the party wasn't a total loss.



When Hubby's Mom was alive, I used to envy his relationship with his brothers and sisters. Sometimes remembering the way it used to be makes what's happening now that much harder to bear. When it's a family members hand on the knife, the wound is much deeper and more painful.